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19th-Dec-2012 01:03 pm - A good read
Lollipop.

Found this from a friend facebook wall, I think it's very meaningful and a very important reminder for me, decided to save it here on LJ.

怎么去爱一个男人、请仔细看下去♡

年轻时,我们不懂爱。我们以为不许他抽烟,是为了不让他得肺癌;不许他喝酒,是为了保护他的肝;不许他看通宵,不许他上网,是为了保证他的睡眠;不许他和朋友打牌、上馆子,是为了不让他荒废事业,一事无成-

爱他,我们就要给他一定的空间。我们不能因为爱,就剥夺了他的爱好和自由。男人抽烟喝酒,就像女人逛街穿衣一样,那是一种由衷的快乐。没有了它,男 人就少 了太多的快乐。所以,如果不是嗜烟酗酒,如果不至于影响健康,那么,抽烟的时候帮他点火,喝酒的时候陪他来两杯吧!也许你会发现,他的快乐其实 就是你的快 乐-

男人喜欢什么,陪他就好了,窝在他的怀里,看他笑,看他狂,看他丧气,你只要陪着他就好,不要抱怨,也许当时他把你忘了,以至于你睡着了,他都不知道, 但 是,当他忙完时,他一定会温柔地抱起你。男人爱上网,你就让他上吧,有些时候,男人可以在网中找到成就感,找到英雄感,人总要有点精神寄托的。男人 当然更 是少不了朋友的,只要他不是夜夜笙萧,偶尔和朋友聚聚,你该为他高兴。一个有朋友的人,他才不会孤独,不会偏执。不要嫉妒他的朋友,不要说你没有他的朋 友 重要,一个人的一生中,除了爱情,亲情,他还需要友情的-

拥有时,我们不懂爱,易把亲近当疏远 。 我们会发现,我们爱的那个男人对谁都好。他在车上可以和陌生人亲切的交谈;他看见有老人会热心地让座;他在路上跟每一个熟悉的人打招呼;在外面他似 乎事事 周全,可是,唯有对我们,他是那样的容易忽略。他会忘了你的生日,他会忘了陪你逛街,甚至放假后,他倒头就睡,他竟然都不陪你说话。你很疑惑,为什么, 为 什么这个男人他对谁都好,唯独对我毫不重视?他陪朋友可以聊到深夜,为什么面对我竟无话可说,为什么让他陪我看电视,他就说累了要睡觉?亲爱的,千万不 要 这样想,他对谁都好,对谁都周全,那是因为他和他们有距离。男人是很虚荣的,他要面子,他也要应酬。而你,你是他的爱人,在他眼里,你就是自己人,他无 须 在你面前活得那样累。所以,你要明白一点,男人对你忽略,其实,正是把你当作自己一样的看待。所以,不要抱怨他忽略你,记住,只要他能在和别人亲切交谈 的 时候紧握着你的手,在晚上睡觉的时候紧抱着你的身躯,那么,你就无须自己折磨自己。你要相信,他爱你就像爱自己-

拥有时,我们不懂爱,易把 任性当撒娇。爱一个人就有权利霸道地说:“不要穿那件衣服,难看死了。穿这件,这是我新给你买的。”张晓风在《一个女人的 爱情观》里如是说。其实,很多女 人在她们的男人面前都是这样霸道任性的。我们以为爱他,就有权利要他这样,不要他那样。我们以为爱他,就可以翻看他的 口袋,看他的聊天记录,检查他的邮 箱。我们以为爱他,当然就可以在他面前毫无隐瞒的发泄我们的情绪-
我们可以霸道,可以任性,只要我们的霸道能让他体会到我们的依赖,只要我们的任性能够让他开心,那么所有的情绪都是可爱的撒娇:在寂静的夜里,你蹭 在他的 怀里,不肯去睡是撒娇;走累的时候,你说走不动了要他背你,是撒娇;在他生气的时候,你摇摇他的胳膊,亲亲他的脸蛋是撒娇。总之,撒娇是爱情的调味品, 是 亲昵爱恋的自然流露,撒娇绝不是吵架的导火线。当我们的撒娇变成了一种执拗,当我们的任性变得不讲道理,当我们的爱恋变成了不信任。亲爱的,爱情将和我 们 渐行渐远-

拥有时,我们不懂爱,易把怀疑当调侃-

我们爱他,真的,这种爱甚至可以深入骨髓。我们以为世界上只有这个男人最好,我们以为我们爱的男人,别的女人也一定喜欢。于是,我们把他含在口里怕化了,捧在手里怕碎了。我们不知道该怎样珍惜才好,我们变得患得患失,神经紧张-

因为爱他,所以,我们害怕失去。我们惟恐一不小心,他就被哪个女人给拐跑了。于是,我们开始失去自我,我们开始敏感多疑-


爱他,我们就要相信他。只有你相信他,你才能更加幸福。因为你感觉到了幸福,你才会更爱他,而他也将更加爱你。而怀疑一旦植入你的心中,你的爱便在 一点点 消失。因为,你总把他往坏里想,自然,心理暗示着自己一天天远离他。你在痛苦中煎熬,你伤害着自己,也伤害着爱人。爱不是占有,爱是宽容 宽厚 是通达 是理解。

29th-Nov-2012 10:21 am - ☆(≧∀≦*)ノ LOLITA, GET! ☆
Lollipop.


I came across this old blog post 2 years ago I had about wishing upon having lolita dress...

Can I has lolita pweeeaaase?

And heck, you know what. From those 4 dresses I posted back then, I ACTUALLY-REALLY OWNED THEM. NOW JUST REALIZED AND I'M IN AWE, I ACTUALLY POSTED THEM BEFORE? LIKE A RANDOM WISHLIST? I MADE A WISH ON BLOGGER AND IT CAME TRUE OH MY GOD OH MY GOD. Even though the Milk-chan red jsk I owned was just a replica (already sold it a while ago), and recently bought Kumya-chan and friends judy JSK, not in yellow but in mint. BUT HECK! I HAD THEM. It would have been the most- unbelievable shit ever but it happened.

Wearing lolita has always been a... silly wish of mine. "It's impossible!" It's either about the pricyness of the fashion, the lack of confident to pull it off, how unpractical the fashion is... etc, etc.  But look at me right now, I'm kinda rocking it.




I started with affordable offbrand stuff, bodyline, taobao shop, replicas and even picking up cute stuff at local lala store. (lala stands for, bad taste hipster in Malaysia) After buildiing a decent wardrobe with a lot of dresses, I started to sell off all the- undesirable items (especially replicas), gain some money and start investing on lolita brands.

I started with a really cute and old sweet teddy printed skirt by Metamorphose temps de fille. Usually stuff from this brand aren't as crazy expensive as other big boss brand like Angelic Pretty, Baby... I got this skirt for quite some time already but- still have not wear it so far. orz

Slowly I started hunting for 3/5 away from original price kind of big brand dresses. Started with Candy Shop JSK from Angelic Pretty, then Kumya-chan and friends Judy JSK... (This one is more pricy, but I couldn't think straight. I missed this dress too many times! STAHP NAO) Later I hunted AP Romance Doll, Toy Drops....

Brand dresses I own so far 

(o´3`o)ノ And the most unbelievableeeee- I recently purchased a first hand Angelic Pretty brand dress set straight on reservation period!!! It was a hard bill to pay, but I'm so so so excited! I really can't wait to receive my first dress!!


Marshmallow Bunny from Angelic Pretty 


Hopefully I won't be a lazy ass and post about the dress when I received it. I suppose I should write the entries on Livejournal and copy pasta here, lol. It's like a dream come true!

Before I end this post, I wanna saaaaaaaay. If you wish hard, think hard, crave hard-- eventually it will come to you. It's like a magic spell that takes a lot of patient, a lot of years to complete. Your desire will take you to your goal! Remember the power of positive thinking.



But seriously, lolita fashion is like a endless money sucking black hole if you let your greed control you. BEWARE! BEWARE... *Zecora voice*

3rd-Jul-2012 11:25 pm - Japanese Curry!
Lollipop.
Cooked nice Japanese curry as dinner tonight! I thought of writing down my recipe here so I won't forget how to cook it next time. (bad memory is certainly bad)

I used to follow recipe online, but my mom complaint that my curry have too many gravy, it would taste better with a lot of ingredients! So she went and buy crap loads of them and toss it all in the pot lol.

Ingredients:
(Serving for 6 person)
  1. 700 gram of Chicken drumstick meat 
  2. 125 gram curry cubes
  3. 2 Potatoes
  4. 1 Carrot
  5. 1 Onion
  6. 1/2 Sweet potato
  7. 1/2 Sweet apple
  8. 125 gram curry cubes
  9. Oil
  10. 700ml of water.


Directions:
  1. Cut onions in to pieces. You may cut it however you like.
  2. Cut chicken, potatoes and carrot in to bite sizes. 
  3. Grate sweet potato and sweet apple.
  4. Heat pan with some oil, saute onion until they are soft, then set them aside.
  5. Add a lot of oil this time and cook the chicken until they are white, or slightly brown.
  6. Put all the ingredients in a pot with water, cook for 20 minutes.
  7. Add the curry cubes and stir until it melt nicely. It might stick at the bottom of the pot if you don't stir it enough.
  8. Cook for another 20 minutes, then done! 
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3rd-Jul-2012 08:51 pm - LJ returneth.
Lollipop.
I always find the short form of LiveJournal amusing. EL JAY, EL JAY... I can't help but think of something wrong, rofl.

Ahem, opened my account since 2006 because one of my friend urged me to. I used LJ to keep in touch with some friends and write about daily happenings. Later- I got lazy, meh. But I always feel envious to those who have such a habit. It's so convenient to keep track of interesting event in life or so. AAAHHH NOW I HAVE TWITTER, TEEHEE. Lazy and short happening updates ftw.

ANYWAY- I'm returning to LJ so I can be part of Elegant Gothic Lolita community. I've always wanted to post something there! But it does seems a little scary because of several reason lol.

Always been interested with lolita fashion, finally got a job and has income! So I can afford a bit of off brand dresses, wee! Went to Japan on a company trip last year and I invaded Bodyline and Closet Child's store at Takeshida Dori, Harajuku. Got my first few lolita dress! I loveeee my company!

Blah blah blah. The end.
17th-Feb-2012 10:26 am - Already Valentine's?
Lollipop.

並不是完全沒有收過情人節禮物,但是這次收到的-應該是最棒的!
超級可愛,軟綿綿又肥嘟嘟的懶懶熊抱枕~~




他之前還裝著一副不以為意,完全沒有準備的樣子。現在想回去才發現自己那麼白痴-怎麼會完全相信他說的話?明明就是充滿漏洞的謊言,可是我一丁點都沒有懷疑過...

只能說我太悲觀了-
情人節踏入半夜十二點鐘時,我還滿懷期待他真的會做些什麼- 結果他不但忘了當時已經是情人節了,還直說他沒完全有準備些什麼。看着他拼命向我道歉的樣子,我完全相信了。
我會那麼期待,或許是被過去禁止慶祝情人節這種遺憾所造成的吧?
其實我真的沒有和男朋友真真正正慶祝過情人節,也許真的很嚮往。
“應該是他工作太忙了-所以沒有想到吧。而且我們也從來沒有特別說過要怎麼慶祝..." 我想理智的讓自己不要難過,可是女生的理性總是不容易打敗感性。

原來我真的那麼那麼期待嗎?
過度失望,那晚我忍不住在他面前流淚了。
看到我個樣子,他也難過得睡不著覺。

情人節早上,他滿懷高興的告訴我說他收到我的情人節禮物了,開始像小孩子一樣到處在網上向別人炫耀。他還把我寫給他的情信拍下來po在網上- (差點想殺了他,我真的害羞到快死了)一副幸福的模樣羨煞旁人,希望單身的朋友們要體諒他喲-噗。
看到他那麼高興,我突然不難過失望了!看到他那麼開心也讓我整個人開心了起來。



幾天後,突然郵差殺上門丟了一包龐然大物給我。
這時我才知道,他老早就在網上訂購了這個可愛死人的懶懶熊枕頭給我當禮物。看樣子應該不便宜。
貴不貴不是要點,最重要是他的心思啊- 之前他老早就在探聽我有什麼懶懶熊的東西了,他是儲心積累的在準備這番驚喜啊- 還虧我之前一直扁嘴,一副哭哭啼啼的樣子- 啊啊啊啊啊啊啊 我真的冤枉他了- 好內疚。
收到禮物之後我是超級開心的向他道謝-他居然還道歉說禮物來遲了,害我哭是他不好。我更加內疚了~

哇哇我怎麼那麼孩子氣-- 還好有一個那麼體貼的男朋友- ( T A T) *淚*
不過你也太會演了吧- 看我那麼失落的樣子居然還那麼堅持保密... ( - u -)lll

幸福爆燈啦!


永遠抱著睡好了~ 呵呵呵
12th-Mar-2010 10:38 am - (○^ε^○) Lolita want!
Lollipop.
I watched Shimotsuma Monogatari last night♥ I use to watch it few years ago, but (I have no idea why) I found it so boring and not-understandable, so I quit watching before it reach the ends. Now when I re-watch it, I suddenly find it so interesting and heart-warming ♥ It is a nice show! I must be so silly back then.

Here's some screenshotie :


Kyoko Fukada is puuurfeeect for the lolita role ♥





Anna Tsuchiya played as a "yanki girl" in the movie. I loled at her heavy make up. I'm pretty amazed to realize how she normally looks like, she's so pretty!



Favorite line in the movie by Momoko: "From today on, this cabbage will be your friend ♥"



Seeing Kyoko wearing those frilly goodness make me goes craaazieeee- (; 3 ;) Her room in the movie was like- filled with frills, pinkness, elegant soft toys, happy colors and floweriness. It's like a dream come true to meeee- I WANT IT TOOO PLZZZZ (; 3 ;)


This movie feature one of the pricey lolita brand, "Baby, The Stars Shine Bright". The thing I love the most about "Baby" is how dedicated they are with their dress patterns!


Would you look at those dresses- so delicate and frilly. The patterns are so sweet looking and well-designed too! ( * 3*)

Why would a girl living in this modern age wish to stuff herself in those frilly dress? It's a weird fact for many people, but that's how Girly-Dreamyland rolls!

Of course-such pretty and well-made dresses can never be cheap. One of these is roughly 250 to 300 USD. (tax included) Not something that I could afford now- But I really wish I can own this some days- ( ~ v~) ♥ ♥ ♥





//end of daydreaming loool.
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